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Communication in Lango

Communicating effectively in Lango language requires understanding the cultural nuances and respect hierarchies. Here are some phrases and tips for communicating with elders, children, and visitors in Lango:

Examples of phrases and tips for communication with elders in Lango;-

EnglishLango
Communication in Lango Kubere i Lango 
Thank youApwoyo
I need your adviceAn amito tam i-boti
Thank you very muchApwoyo yin atek
Grandfather Aba-adwong
Grandmother Atat/daa
Listen to them Winy gi
Speak slowly Lok momot
Speak clearly Lok acil
Speak closer Lok acok
Patience Kur/bed mot
Show compassion Nyut mara
Show respect Nyut woro
Cheerful mood Nyuto yomyic
Promoting peace Kelo kuc
Let them know Mi gi nge
They are relevant Pir gi tek
Good relationship Wat aber
RespectedWore
Offer choices Wek/mi yer
Avoid pressure Pe ibunyere
Reduce conflicts Kwany tubere
Wisdom Ryeko
InterestMiti
Experience Ngec
Politeness Mwolo
Respectful toneDwon woro

Tips:

  • Use polite language and a respectful tone.
  • Show interest in their wisdom and experiences.
  • Avoid direct eye contact as it might be considered disrespectful.

Examples of phrases and tips for communication with Children;-

EnglishLango 
Friendly Mare 
Approachable Tic kede yot
Simple Yot 
How are you?Yin itye ningo?
Go and sleepWot i but/inin.
You are doing wellYin itye itimo aber
Active listening Ciko yit 
Read with your child Kwan kede atin ni
Parenting Bedo-anywal 
Self-esteem Agonya 
ThriveDongo 
Encouragement Cukuro
Praise Pako
WorthyPore
LovedMare
Listen to them Winy en gin
Emotional Keto-cuny
Respect Wor
Build relationship Dong wat
Care about them Par pir gi
Child's lifeKwo atin
Use the word ‘I see’Ti kede kop ‘a neno’ 
Attention Winy 
Engagement Tute 
Build trust Dong gen
Observant Neno akwiri
My babyAtin na
My son Woda
My daughter Nyara 
Appreciate them Pwo gi

Tips:

  • Use simple, clear language.
  • Be friendly and approachable.
  • Encourage them and show appreciation for their efforts.

Examples of phrases and tips for communication with Visitors;-

EnglishLango 
You are welcome hereA jolo bino ni kan/ Apwoyo bino ni kan.
Do you need any help?Onyo yin imito kony moro?
Was your journey good?Nwongo wot/yoo ni ber?
Welcoming a visitor Gamo/jolo en welo
Attentive Cikkere 
Responsive Gamo 
Their needsMiti gi
Hospitable enough Gwok oromo
Clarify Niango 
SummarisingWie-wie 
Welcome Jol/gam
Compliment Pwoc
Genuine Ateteni
SincereAteteni 
Guest/visitor Welo
Confirm Mok
Paraphrasing Nwoyo 
Open-ended questions Apeny aler/agonya
Avoid distractions Geng rucurucu
Acknowledge points Yee apiretek 

Tips:

  • Be hospitable and offer refreshments.
  • Show interest in their journey and purpose of visit.
  • Use a warm and inviting tone.

General Communication tips in Lango

  • Use Proverbs: Lango communication often involves proverbs, which convey wisdom and are highly respected.
  • Non-Verbal Cues: Pay attention to body language and facial expressions, as they are integral to the communication process.
  • Listening: Active listening is crucial in Lango culture. It shows respect and interest in the conversation.

Additional phrases and tips for general communication in Lango, include;-

EnglishLango
May I ask you  something?An atwero penyo yin ginoro?
Are you okay?Yin itye aber?
Walk wellWot aber
Listen Winy
ActivelyAber
CueAnyut
ReadKwan
Method Yoo/kit 
Feedback Agam 
MattersPire-tek 
Write things down Coo jami piny
Pace yourself Ter cawani
Identify your objectives Nwong miti ni
Choose the right time Yer en cawa aber
Know your audience Nge lwak ni
EffectiveBer
Contextual Tye-iye
Visual Nenere 
Non-verbal Nyute/nenere
OralDog
Written Coye
Check your message Rot kwena ni
Think before you speak Tam apwod-pe i loko
Body language Lok kom
Be specific Bed atir
Be briefBed acecek/wie-wie  

Remember, language is deeply tied to culture, and the way one speaks and listens is as important as the words used. Being mindful of cultural practices and showing respect in communication are key to meaningful interactions in Lango culture.

Phrases and tips used in communication with peers/friends, include;-

English Lango 
How are you?Yin itye ningo?
Do you want to go out?Yin i mito wot oko?
I have something interesting An atye ginoro amit 
To tell you Me kobi yin
BondBedo-acok 
FriendshipsDyere/owote
Constant Naka
DeepAtut
Regular Kare-lung
Shallow Malu-malu/wie-wie 
Occasionally Icel-icel
TalkLoki
Face to face Wang i wang
Discretion Apoka-poka 
Rephrase Nwoyo
Friendliness Adyere
Trust Gen
Build trust Keto gen
Earn trust Nwong gen
Personal Apiri/amegi
Casual Pe-tek
Preferences Me-amara
Technology Ryeko/ngec
Etiquette Cik
Relevant Pire-tek 
Be mindful Bed akwiri 
LovesMaro
InformalTukotuko
JokesRat
Stories Cheko 
Laughters Nyero

Tips:

  • Use informal and friendly language.
  • Jokes and laughter are often appreciated.
  • Share personal stories and listen to theirs.

Phrases and tips used in communication with community leaders include;-

EnglishLango 
Thank you, sir/madamApwoyo yin, adit
I have an issue An atye kede peko ame 
I would like to discuss with you An atye amito me leyo-tam kede yin
Can you help me?Yin itwero konyo an?
Leaders Otela 
Respect Woro
Recognise Ngeyo
ContributionsRac
Comments Agam
Social Bedo i joo
Virtual Nenere
Community Lwak
Exchange of information Leyo en tam
Sharing information Nywako kwena/kop/lok/ngec/tam
Resolve conflicts Tyeko peki
SimplifyMi bed ayot
Short wordsLok acego
Clear expectations Gin-amite atir
Value Pire-tek 
Make missionTim miti
Understanding Niang 
Correct Ateni
Access to timelyNwongere i cawacawa
Cultural Tekwaro
Appropriate Opore
Position Rwom
DecisionsTam omoko
FormalCicik
Purpose Pi ginoro/tyen-kop

Tips:

  • Use respectful and formal language.
  • Clearly state the purpose of your communication.
  • Show respect for their position and decisions.

Phrases and tips used in communication with spouse/partner include;-

EnglishLango 
LoveMara
I love youAn amaro yin
We need to talk about somethingWan mito o lok akwako ginoro.
CaringParo-pir  
Affectionate Mara
OpenKan-aler
HonestAteni
FeelingsWinyo
Validate Pire-tek 
Emotions Myel-kom/akemo
Rituals Kwera 
Spouse/partner Apai 
Husband Cwar
WifeDako
Boyfriend Awot awobi
Girlfriend Awot anyako
Relationship Wat
Married Nyomere
Unmarried Pe-onyomere
Divorced Kwere i ot pido/okiko
Separated Pokere
Wedding Nyom-acil
Dating Yamo/cuno/mito/
Cohabitation Tingere
Agreement Cikere
Legal Cik oyee
Illegal Cik pe oyee
Plan together Yubere karacel
Roadblocks Gengo-yoo
Empathy Kica
UnderstandsNiang
CalmMot
Prepare Yubere
Mutual Niangere 
Marriage fine Luk

Tips:

  • Use affectionate and caring language.
  • Be open and honest about your feelings.
  • Listen actively and validate their emotions.

Phrases and tips used in communication with religious leaders include;-

EnglishLango 
Thank you, priestApwoyo yin, adwong-lego/padi.
I seek your guidance in spiritual mattersAn amiti yin inguta ikom yoo tipu/cuny
Thank you very much for your helpApwoyo yin atek pi kony ni
Address themKobi gi
Moral Kit-atir
Spiritual Cuny/tipu
Guidance Nguto/telo/cimo
Christian Okristo
Prayerful Legol
MiraclesTangu
Preaching Jiri
Worship God Wor Obanga
Praising GodPako Obanga
Sacred textsKwena imung/ipipiny
Judgement Ngola 
Singing Wer
Prophetic Akwena-obanga/anebi
Theological Ebanjili/buk-acil
Reflection Tamo
RitualsKwera
Gospel Kop Obanga 
Reading Bible Kwano buk acil
Witnessing Caden
Leaders Otela 
Religion Dini
God the Father Obanga Apap
Holy spirit Tipu acil
Ways of GodYoo me Obanga 
Lifting GodTingo Obanga 
Thanking GodPwoyo Obanga 

Tips:

  • Use respectful language and address them by their religious title.
  • Discuss spiritual and moral issues earnestly.
  • Show appreciation for their spiritual guidance.

Phrases and tips used in communication with teachers/educators include;-

EnglishLango 
Thank you, teacherApwoyo yin, apwony
I have a question An atye kede apeny 
About this topicIkom wi-lok ni
I would like to discussAn atye amito me leyo 
My progress Wot na
Knowledge Ryeko
Experience Ngec
Specific Ikokome 
Educational needsJami-kwan amite
QuestionsApeny
Express gratitude Nyut pwoc
TipsKite/yoo
Positively Atira
Teacher/educatorApwony
Learning curve Pwonyere ogule 
Patience Mot
Understanding Niang 
Emotional Myel-kom/akemo
Style Kit
Language Leb
School Ka-kwan
Classroom Ot-kwan
So forthKede en okene
Interaction Leyo-karacel 
Text messages Kwena ocoo
BlogsKwena
Chat roomsOt lok/ceko
Respectful toneDwan awor/alongo

Tips:

  • Show respect for their knowledge and experience.
  • Be clear and specific about your educational needs or questions.
  • Express gratitude for their guidance and teaching.

 

Phrases and tips used in communication with service providers (e.g., shopkeepers, artisans) include;-

EnglishLango 
Can you assist me?Yin  i twero konya?
Can we discuss the price?Wan otwero laro wel?
This is goodMan ber
FeelingsKit-iwinyo
MechanicismsTeto
Interface Calere
Services Ticere 
ProvidersOmi
Wholesale Wel gamo
Artisans Ogoc
Shop attendant Acat duka
Buyer Awil
ProfitsMagoba
Techniques Kwiri
Consumption Tic-kede
MonthDwe
ChargesWel
Download Keto
Combination Orwate 
Goods Jami
Customers Owil
SellerAcat
PoliteWoro
Empathy Kica
Concise Kakare
ThoughtsTam
General Ducu
Groups Wal/eryonget 

Tips:

  • Use polite and friendly language.
  • Be clear about what you need or expect.
  • Show appreciation for their service.

General Tips for All Groups

  • Empathy: Understanding and acknowledging the other person's feelings and perspectives.
  • Clarity: Being clear and concise in your communication.
  • Active Listening: Paying close attention to what the other person is saying.

Remember, the key to effective communication in any culture, including Lango, is respect, empathy, and clear expression of your thoughts and feelings.